27 April

Personally, I almost always lead with a compliment, because it never leads to a blow out when it’s sincere, and if a woman doesn’t appreciate a genuine compliment, then she’s not the kind of woman i want to be with even for one night.

28 April

I know a lot of great guys on this list who are masters of cocky and cool, and yes, they get blown out sometimes. Personally, I would rather focus on making good relationships and impressions all the time than get laid quick, so my teaching focuses on being warm and never getting blown out.

Craigslist Dating Sites

When I was young(er), I often made the mistake of thinking that if a girl slept with me quickly, she did this with everyone and wasn’t interested in a “relationship”, just a hook-up. Two specific failures later, I knew better. Now, I won’t get “involved” with a chick until she slept with me. Sex is important and I won’t waste my time on a girl who doesn’t think the same way. Realistically, if a girl wants to hold out, she gets dumped–it’s a bullshit game and it’s disrespectful. I know the whole Madonna Whore thing (google it, bitches) seems to be commonplace, but I think that’s entirely a social construct. The moment I realized there were worthwhile women who were as wonderfully slutty as I, I didn’t see any point in wasting my time with anyone else.

Free Dating

It all depends on what you want. If you want to learn how to approach and enjoy it every time, you need to find a technique that keeps you from getting blown out. But keep in mind that if you want to get laid, you will need to move things along at some point.

Online Dating

Hey Matt: Dont worry i didnt say what i did to make you feel guilty. I was just saying that .. For the majoirty of girls, relationships are something that they expect. With that being said there are a lot of girls that are happy to be in a FB situation due to curcumstances. Like leaving countries, coming out of a serious relationship.FB while i dont like them, they can work. Lance who is on my blog talks a lot about this. He is also a PUA and it works for him, because he is extremly upfront about the whole thing, so he doesnt lead the girls on. Thats all you need to do =) N hey if she slept with you that early on, well there must have been something you were doing right in the attraction dep .. so thumb up lol Hot Alpha Female

Personals Online

To tie it back–Friends With Benefits is hard because it straddles the line between Fuck Buddy and Relationship. It’s all too easy for it to slide to one or the other, for the friendship to become unbalanced until they’re an FB or to become so close it turns into a Relationship. For someone experienced, this isn’t an issue because relationships (small ‘r’) naturally ebb and flow and change status and they’ll prolly return to the way things were. Don’t sweat it. For someone greener, it becomes an Issue because you wanted to be FwB (friend, some sex) and instead you’re being treated as an FB (meat), or maybe things have gotten heavy and you want to discuss “Where are we going?”